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emotionalgirl posted 10/5/2013 20:24 PM

I thought we were doing ok, I thought he was getting it, I thought he was doing everything right......
We have a fundraiser and a birthday party tonight, so here I sit all dressed up and ready to go and guess what! That's right the asshole is an hour late getting home, phone is off and I am steaming mad!!

emotionalgirl posted 10/5/2013 20:28 PM

Ok literally two seconds after I posted this he calls....his phone died and he got stuck at work then had to drive 20 min to next town over to get gas because he's an idiot who forgot to fill his tank yesterday!
He knows I am mad and is apologetic but GOD I HATE THIS! The doubts and the crazy making!

TheClimb posted 10/5/2013 20:29 PM

Just go by yourself. When he calls let it go to voice mail See how much he likes being ignored!

Try to enjoy your evening.

emotionalgirl posted 10/6/2013 02:31 AM

I left and went alone, he got home to an empty house. I didn't answer my phone he shows up at fundraiser all upset because I didn't wait for him. I said to him if you had turned on your phone I would have been able to let you know. Best part is....he walked in just as I was getting hit on by some cute young guy! definitely gave this gal an ego boost and opened WH eyes very wide. He was on his best behaviour all night long!
I feel a bit bad because he actually ran out of gas but what idiot doesn't fill his tank? Then in the next thought I feel like he is just an idiot who should know better!

[This message edited by emotionalgirl at 2:34 AM, October 6th (Sunday)]

JanetS posted 10/6/2013 08:45 AM

I would have checked his phone to confirm it was really out of power...and is there no gas closer than 20 minutes away?

Dreamland posted 10/6/2013 10:48 AM

Mine does stupid things but that's how he fooled me so I don't believe any lame answer anymore.
I still track his phone to verify. And often wonder why is not working I can or do the find my iPhone . He says it's the gps but hates when he gets the ping. I don't care if he gets angry. He cheated and it's part of the deal.
I would check it..

emotionalgirl posted 10/6/2013 12:19 PM

Thanks everyone....as usual when I get angry and post my details can be sketchy....
He works 45 min from the city in the middle of a bare field and is building a big plant. The nearest town is 20 min away. His phone often searches for signal through the day and then dies and he sometimes does not realize it. There is literally nothing but 2 towns between him and the city. The first towns gas station was already closed and he tried to drive to the next town but ran out of gas before he got there. Had to get one of the guys he works with to get him a geri can full, and I didn't check number but he called from work buddies phone to let me know.I did confirm this. His phone was dead when he showed up at the fundraiser.

I am sure it is all the truth...but am still mad today tha he is such an idiot, and that he brought this shit into our lives making me not trust the smallest things anymore. He has been very understanding about my anger though so that is good!

[This message edited by emotionalgirl at 12:21 PM, October 6th (Sunday)]

StillStanding1 posted 10/6/2013 12:59 PM

I was just happy to read that you went without him and he got a tiny dose of his own medicine.

Feeling a little vengeful today and living vicariously...