We are a month away from Dday, and so many things are coming up that are reminding me of that horrible day/evening. Im having problems processing this whole thing again. For last 2 days ive done nothing but think about OW and what she did on webcam for my H. I see her when I close my eyes (which is pretty hard, because I don't even know what the woman looked like) but u see a vision of what she did. How the ow stripped off (and apparently always wore matching underwear, unlike myself who struggles with Bridget jones type knickers to cover up my ever on-going downward flab!!) so, she stripped off to a little bum wiggle in front of screen, sat there naked and touched herself and proceeded to type inbetween asking him if he liked it! I bet he always said yes ... sometimes she would get up on all fours and stick her skinny arse in the air and touch herself from behind! Reminds me of a porn star, a porn movie, only for hi it was a live one!
This weekend I have gone from feeling fat and ugly (which btw I am a sixe 18 UK, so yes, I am fat/curvey) I feel worthless up to the point where I even tried to scratch my face, I didn't know I was doing this until H came beside me and stopped me, I now have a lovely mark on the side of my face to remind me each time I look in the mirror, how ugly I really am!
H sat with me and tried his best to explain that it didn't matter what she looked like, he didn't care as long as she kept doing what she was doing for him. I don't know if that makes me feel better or not, I mean lets face it ... myself as a woman, if I saw a man and I really wasn't attracted to him, I would not feel like talking dirty to him, would not want to even contemplate seeing him naked ... so how could my H !!!!!! He says it was all about the sex, the cyber stuff he did with other women too, he didn't care what they looked like, there were some thin ones, fat ones, ugly ones and pretty ones .... he says it didn't matter! How can that be!!!!
Anyway, ive rambled enough now, im just having a really bad weekend and want to it stop. Halloween is coming and everywhere I look reminds me of what is coming up. I found out the day before his parents wedding anniversary, and I know we will have to go an celebrate this with them this year as its a special one, how can I do that knowing that this time last year we were going thru hell!
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