Do we sometimes overlook the pain that Infidelity cause via ripple effect?
WS has A.
BS is devastated.
WS's parents are shocked, ashamed, confused, angry, sad and hurt.
BS's parents are hurt, the parents' best friends grieve for their best friend's pain, children are hurt, best friends of children are hurt, etc.
Here's what brought this to mind. I learned yesterday that my sister's daughter (my niece) is having an A. My sister was crying on the phone, as she told me about it. She was very hurt.
So, my question is this. Do BS (myself included) and the WSs, in the midst of our horrible pain and its aftermath, not see this ripple effect clearly, or at all?