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User Topic: "My Declaration of Self-Esteem"
♀ 33735
Member # 33735
Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me
Everything that comes out of me is authentically me
Because I alone chose it - I own everything about me
My body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions,
Whether they be to others or to myself - I own my fanatasies,
My dreams, my hopes, my fears - I own all my triumphs and
Successes, all my failures and mistakes
Because I own all of Me, I can become intimately acquainted with me -
By so doing I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts - I know
There are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other
Aspects that I do not know - but as long as I am
Friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously
And hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles
And for ways to find out more about me - However I
Look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever
I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically
Me - If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought
And felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is
Unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that
Which I discarded - I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do
I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be
Productive to make sense and order out of the world of
People and things outside of me - I own me, and
Therefore I can engineer me - I am me and

--Virginia Satir, (C) 1975

M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love. Thank you for posting this, macakipa.

You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown

Posts: 33447 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 29289
Member # 29289
Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely Perfect!

Posts: 398 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 3:05 AM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

75 was a great year!

Love this.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5953 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
♂ 33857
Member # 33857
Default  Posted: 6:31 AM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 734 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Western Kentucky
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