my 8 yo dd received a bracelet with a charm that said "sister" from knocked up whore. My dd seems very pleased with it. I'm sure that DD's friends will ask what "sister" means.
At this point, other than my close friends, few people know that I am separated from my stbx, much less that his whore is knocked up. Within our small community, the information will spread quickly that my STBX and his whore will be having a baby together.
I'm venting on a stream of conscious level.
I don't care for where I live, but I stay for DD's school. I don't want to create too much havoc and instability moving her to a new school at this point.
I think it would help me let go and start over if I can live in a new place after my grieving.