We agreed on no attorneys, SBB, so it is all on him and his failure to do his own homework. For someone with a graduate degree he can be quite stupid at times. Oh, wait, I forgot that I was the one doing all his homework to GET that graduate degree and if not for me doing that he would not have gotten through it!!
The funny part is that the distribution of the home is mentioned in the settlement in THREE different locations, with one section specifically spelling out that he will not make any claim on the equity of the home while we hold a joint mortgage that will remain in place until I refinance (with no date to refinance because he destroyed my credit).
He is angry because I excluded some very valuable china/antiques from the distribution because I inherited them. These have been stored, unused, since I acquired them several years ago. Hence, they were never used for the "benefit of the marriage" and that has really chapped his hide big time. Now he wants to try to use the same strategy against me, but is too blinded by rage and idiocy to realize they are not the same situations.
I am going to go crickets until AFTER the final hearing on the 19th. Once it is official, I will be sending him a letter to advise no further communication not specifically involving DD16 or it will be deemed harassment and I will act accordingly.
Yes, he thinks I am screwing him over in an equitable distribution, which is all itemized in the settlement, and he now wants to change things. Maybe he has forgotten how expensive it is to raise a baby now that OW#3 and OC are living with him and they are playing happy family and he is hard up for money!