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User Topic: Happy 1st Antiversary!
happierdays
♀ 38537
Member # 38537
Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today marks one year since dday, I'm happy to say I haven't been triggering like crazy or anything and compared to this day last year it's been an okay day.

WH and I had long conversation yesterday that had me in tears. I told him I still have no confidence in the fact he won't have another A. I also brought up him reading the 'damn' books and my hope for what him reading them would do.

All in all I'm happy to report I'm not curled in the fetal position balling my eyes out like I was at this time last year. For that I owe so many thanks to SI and all it's wonderful members, you guys have been a lifesaver.

Still working on finding my spark for life again, but today I have faith that I will get there.


Me - 40
WH - 41
Dday - Oct 7, 2012
Dday 2 - June 4, 2013
Married - 7 years
2 daughters, 9 years old and 1 month old

Posts: 146 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes doing "okay" is a blessing, isn't it? I'm glad to hear you are progressing with your healing, and not in the same spot you were in last year. Thank goodness for that, right?

Hang in there, and take care.


Posts: 7984 | Registered: Dec 2010
HardenMyHeart
♂ 15902
Member # 15902
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on reaching the 1 year mark.

Still working on finding my spark for life again, but today I have faith that I will get there.

Sending best wishes you find it soon.

[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 10:41 PM, October 7th (Monday)]


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5711 | Registered: Aug 2007
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