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User Topic: finding peace in the present
cinnamongurl
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Member # 37879
Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd like to share a positive story with you guys.

I'm feeling so incredibly lucky and loved this evening! I had an emotionally draining, soul wrenching day. Pretty heavy IC this morning, and tonight was a monthly support group for something I'm just now beginning to process and face.

It was healing to purge and find support, but absolutely exhausting! When I came home, BSO had made me a beautiful dinner, fixed up the bed super comfy, and baked a loaf of homemade bread! He was loving and affectionate, and exactly the medicine I needed after all my mental self excavation today!

Right now, this moment, I'm feeling peace. Something I haven't felt in a very long time. So I'm just going to take this time to be present, grateful, and peaceful.

I hope that this sheds some light for those suffering, and feeling overwhelmed and like there's no end to the pain. If you work hard enough, you can learn to find peace and gratitude in the present!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. Many ddays, last one late 8/12 "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 514 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
JustDesserts
♂ 39665
Member # 39665
Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Like! Thanks for sharing.


2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 50. Her: BW, 49. Married 19 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.

Posts: 403 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Suburbia, New England, USA
cinnamongurl
♀ 37879
Member # 37879
Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're welcome JD.


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. Many ddays, last one late 8/12 "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 514 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 5:42 AM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you, Cinnamongurl!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good stuff.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6531 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
knightsbff
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Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1525 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
cinnamongurl
♀ 37879
Member # 37879
Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. Many ddays, last one late 8/12 "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 514 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
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