I hear you, kg. Even though they have basically made the decision for us, it doesn't make it easy.
Take care of yourself, and find joy in whatever little things you can right now. Even when the big things suck (and they do suck), you can usually find some little thing that will at least bring a temporary smile.
You're a strong motherfucker who is doing what needs to be done. Take some pride in that.
Two sons: Born 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?
Finally divorced Jul/17
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!