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HurtsButImOK posted 10/8/2013 15:15 PM

So its that time of the year again. The time he always deliberately seeks to fuck me over – always the lead up to the R anniversary on 31 Oct, and guaranteed over my b/day mid Nov. True to history it might be now that the settlement is done, yet again because he dragged it out so finalising falls in this time frame.

Seriously again!! You and your bullshit and incessant desire to fuck whores has to fall in this time frame again!! On one hand I will be happy it is finally over, on the other motherfucker again, seriously again!!!!

I really should be just thankful that this is the last year after now 17 years that he can affect me like this. But it still fucking hurts that he is a dick and I chose him. Fuck!!

SBB posted 10/8/2013 16:10 PM

finalising falls in this time frame

Keep your eye on the prize. It is good that something positive is happening during this time-frame. Over time I hope to add so many new memories on anti-dates that they drown out the anti memories.

gonnabe2016 posted 10/8/2013 18:59 PM

At least he keeps all the shit confined to the same time period. Imagine if he spread it out so that you had to deal with some type of *memory* year-round.....

Just Breathe. I'm sorry that he's such a dick.

vivere posted 10/8/2013 19:10 PM

17 years is a long time to put up with a dick!

This time next year you will reclaim this period the way you choose to, give it the meaning you want it to have.

HurtsButImOK posted 10/9/2013 14:05 PM

Thanks for the support.

It was fuckery year round, just extra special fuckery during this time period each year.

Just gotta keep my eye on the prize, get the legalities done and continue onward and upward.

Thanks again