I understand where shes coming from but i feel like she csnt reslly see my POV bc of the pain she is feeling abt losing hers...what im dealing with is trivial in comparison...
Coming from someone who needs to live 1900 miles from her Mom in order to get along...read this, over and over.
Your friend is giving you the gift of her pain. She's being honest with you in that we need to let the small stuff, the "trivial" stuff go and love wholly.
You can have boundaries. You can become frustrated. But consider how you'd feel (Heaven forbid) if your Mom passed away unexpectantly and you never got to see her, hug her, tell her you love her even when you're frustrated with her, again.
Your friend has wisdom now, gained from painful experience.
"If I'd only known then what I know now".....
(((((idkam))))) (((((idkam's BFF))))))
May BFFs Mom RIP.
[This message edited by TrustNoOne at 5:52 PM, October 8th (Tuesday)]