Another issue is our version of arguments/situations are really 180 different.
It has been a big issue in couples sessions. The counselor would let us argue until it got to heated.
I let her tell her version and then whey I try to tell my version she interupts constantly and I end up shuting down because I'm tired of bickering. It really bothers me that he lets her interupt all the time.
Several times I've asked her to let me finish speaking but she says she has to interupt because I'm wrong.
Again, I can't say this meeting was secret but I do feel I would not have been told if I didn't ask... that is speculation on my part though.
[This message edited by Outdoornut1 at 5:27 PM, October 8th (Tuesday)]