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User Topic: Stressed and need to vent!!!!!!
♀ 40387
Member # 40387
Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Soo today was a BAD day it started with me getting yelled at because I asked what time to set the alarm mind u m our clock is set 30min ahead then while I work I get a call from him w/n sorry and again get yelled at... And at work…… I now hate my job I'm a assistant manager of a store and on the 13 of June the manager left which left me acting manager I enjoyed it and I believe I was good at (from what I was told as well) I even ask for the job but I was denied and a new manger came in on the 16 of last month she came in and flip the store upside down me and my coworkers have all been there for years and she's been with the company all of 3 months now. And I have never felt more disregarded she doesn't ask me nothing she goes to my coworker who's not a manger who then comes to me. I don't want to get into work but its bad I e work there for 4 years never hated my job till now. My best friends moving to a not her state and my family's having a hard time. So needless say I'm stressed but when he came home I asked what was wrong but seemed like he didn't care I really need some support but I feel I'm alone. I would hug and genuine care . I won't tell him either cuz I feel he should know by now. All he says is don't let it get to u and are ok. Oh and I don't what to say. I've broke down and started crying and can't stop 😓 I don't understand wtf is going on. Everywhere I just feel its me against the world wish me luck

[This message edited by Lostly88 at 8:41 PM, October 8th (Tuesday)]

Me_26 EA _ 1 1/2 years ago
Him_24 PA _ 1 year into relationship
Together 5 years
D-day_April 2013 (not sure what day)
May all the pain and sorrow be lifted by the rays of clarity and happiness warm out hearts. 💏

Posts: 10 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: California
♀ 40157
Member # 40157
Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like a really crappy day. I wish you the very best and that tomorrow is much better!!

Me 36- BW
Him 37- WH 6 month EA pushing PA.
DDAY- 7/2/13
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will. -Gandhi
Pls forgive weird sentences and spelling mistakes, I post from my phone and autocorrect hates me.

Posts: 101 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: US
♀ 40488
Member # 40488
Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry for your bad day.
You are so young.. Don't take this the wrong way..

But you need to start fresh. You have only been together for a short while.. Don't waste your precious years on this asshole. I was with a guy 8 years on and off. I hate that I didn't leave him before. I wasted my best years. And now I wonder if I didn't waste my years with my WH. 20 yrs is a long time.. Some good many not.. not sure if it was worth it..
You have no real ties no kids .. Move to a new place get new friends. Changes are good at your age. Believe me you don't want to be 50 yrs old and wish you had relived your live.
Hope this helps:)

Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

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