He also sent me a book entitled "Anger". I guess he thinks I have an anger problem. Why does he not understand that anger is a normal reaction to being deceived?
It's a cloudy day and I feel a pit in my core. I feel uneasy today. Maybe because I got another rejection in my job search. I thought I would proceed to the next round.
He needs to contact them separately if this is the road he wants to go down, leaving you and your child out of it. I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't want to hear it, but he'll find that out for himself if he tries.
Divorced and remarried to XBH
Expecting our first child February 2016
My take on the anger is that they need to vilify us to feel better about the bad things they did. They see our anger as evidence of our "bad behavior"
It really wouldn't take him long to contact each person individually and tell them that.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!
And what is there to "hear"?
Quite simply, they did it. No matter what is blamed on spouses, they did it.
Maybe this is a phase, like we BS go through?
ETA that I know X is trying like mad to get his former reputation back and maybe your STBX wants that too? He says "I have no agenda, now. I don't lie... now."
Who can believe a word, now?
[This message edited by Ashland13 at 8:27 AM, October 10th (Thursday)]
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