I am having a hard time dealing with having a really close friend who is a guy. I work in a trades shop so I am the only woman.
There is one guy who I work with that I am really great friends with. We joke and have a good time and have a very similar sense of humor. We have had lots of serious talks and he told me he has never and will never cheat on his wife. I have told him about my past history as well.
So today I have a double pass to a movie that I won. My boyfriend is working and I know he wants to the see the movie, but I can't ask him.
Because he is a guy. That kinda sucks. He asked if I wanted him to go and I said yes but I don't want to do anything that will cause tension with his wife, even though my bf said he didn't mind because he trusts me.
So that is my rant. Because I have a sense of boundary I have to moderate my friendship with someone because they are of an opposite sex. I know we would have a great time (no inappropriate boundary crossing), but yet I still can't do it.
It kinda sucks, and I have to go to the movie alone. :(