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So, I have an issue and I'm not sure if I can explain it right, but I'll try. And I want to add that I'm STD free and have no other medical problems...just in case anyone asks.

Today I was sitting on the couch watching a show online when I had this NEED to orgasm. I don't even know how to put this into words. My clit became extremely sensitive and felt like it was just set on fire. It's kind of like having to pee really, REALLY badly, except peeing doesn't make the feeling go away. Or maybe it's better to say that it's like the the intense, oversensitive feeling I get right before I have a mind-blowing orgasm, but the orgasm doesn't happen and I just stay feeling that way for a long ass time. I don't think I'm saying this right. It's just so damn hard to explain. It is a physically intense need to orgasm that comes out of nowhere and will not go away until I either have sex or masturbate. It doesn't happen often, but when it does it is always right before I get my period, which I will be getting in a few days (yay me...not). What is up? Does anyone else experience this? Or am I just weird?

[This message edited by frigidfire86 at 3:10 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)]

First... I highly doubt that you are "weird".

Everyone's sex drive is different and everyone has different needs.

Right before your period your hormones are in flux... and that could send your need over the threshold.

As long as you're not doing anything inappropriate then I don't think you have anything to worry about.

My sex drive has dropped significantly over the past couple of months. And when this need arises, emotionally I don't want sex. I'm not horny. Physically though, I have to orgasm or it becomes unbearably uncomfortable. Ugh. This isn't the worst problem in the world to have, but it's really irritating. I basically attacked my H tonight so it would go away...not that he was complaining.

Do you have access to a good B.O.B?

There's nothing wrong with masturbation to alleviate the need.

Yeah, I have a BOB. It isn't as good as the last one I had, but it works. I just don't get why the need comes out of nowhere like that. And the heat! Holy crap! You could light my vagina on fire and it wouldn't compare. Why can't I just eat a ton of chocolate and be bitchy instead? It would be better than this physical sensation popping up at inappropriate times (like while grocery shopping a couple months ago).

Hitachi magic wand. That's all I'm saying. Sounds like a hormone thing. Hell when I ovulate I have to O daily and sometimes multiple times. It is purely physical. H benefits of course but he has no clue why sometimes I am like just do it hard, fast and a lot and then other days I dont want to at all. Lol.

There actually is a name for this, I believe. (And I don't think it's "nymphomania".) I saw a TV program on it once. This one woman felt like that multiple times a day. Maybe if you Google, you can find it. In my wild youth (ahem!), yep, had moments like that. Quite uncomfortable, when in inconvenient places. I feel for you!

[This message edited by lynnm1947 at 8:12 AM, October 10th (Thursday)]

This sounds like a great thing

Yup. This has happened to me. It has even happened in my sleep, and I will start masturbating while half awake. I always just assumed it was quite normal. :D

When I masturbate, though, I have no problem having an orgasm. And I am horniest when I am on my period... Thank God my SO is not squeamish about doing it during that time of month (but I do wear Instead cups for the occasion).

[This message edited by Dark Inertia at 11:19 PM, October 10th (Thursday)]