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Defining the new relationship, letting go of the old?

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lucy17 posted 10/9/2013 17:25 PM

My relationship with H will be forever changed. All relationships change with time and I would have described mine with H as a natural ebb and flow. This last year/6month being more of a slow drifting. But the affair was not a gentle, natural change. It was a sudden, violent stab in my stomach-twice. The last one killed off who I used to be. So I will be stronger and my M will be different. No more absolute, blind, crazy trust. I went from okay with strip clubs, girl lunches, and girl road trips to questioning him when he walks down to the garage with his cell phone. I went from knowing that I would be married forever to knowing there a chance I won't be. The trust bond broke that as well. If it happens again, I will make myself strong enough to leave, just like right now I am making myself strong enough to stay.

unfound posted 10/9/2013 18:25 PM

If it happens again, I will make myself strong enough to leave, just like right now I am making myself strong enough to stay.

That is beautifully put lucy17.

AFrayedKnot posted 10/9/2013 19:16 PM

^^^Wow

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