^^I'd say that is exactly it and I completely understand what you are saying about forgiveness.
I like Madam Google's description of forgive:
To stop feeling angry o resentful toward (someone) for an offense, flaw, or mistake.
My other favourite is the one about 'holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die'.
I'm not quite there myself.
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