You decide where you draw the line, and you stick to it.
It's false R. He is lying. It is time for 180 and an ultimatum or he is just going to keep lying to your face.
I'm really sorry. Counseling, books... that only works when the WS is ready to be authentic.
Stick up for yourself. Come here for support.
(((starmoonchild)))"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron
Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16