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User Topic: Great MC session, again
♀ 39803
Member # 39803
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really love our MC. We talked about our upcoming anniversary (next week), and how there is reason to celebrate it. We've been through/are in a terribly painful part of our marriage, but we are here. . .still kicking. Still imperfect. Still trying to improve and love each other better.

Some days I get lost in the pain of the infidelity, but MC reminds me that H is here, working hard, trying his best to make things right. I can start to see how this time will be a painful footnote in an otherwise profound, and dare I say it, healing relationship for both of us. I refuse to let it define me, and eventually, us.

So, very hopeful today. The pack of black dogs (jealousy, despair, fear & pain) are, for now, dozing in the sun. I know they'll be back, but for now, I am going to try to enjoy it.

me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.

Posts: 2988 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
♀ 40568
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bionicgal, what a great post and a great reminder to look at what we do have. I love the visual of the dogs dozing in the sun - perfect.

BS, 53
M 9 years
second marriage, second WH
4 kids in their 20s, none together
I have no idea whether we will D or R at this point.

Posts: 424 | Registered: Sep 2013
♀ 38958
Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love reading about positive experiences. Big smiles to you!

BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 438 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
♀ 40769
Member # 40769
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for your inspiration bionicgal. I am so happy to hear the positive. Enjoy!

Take care of you. Then worry about your M.
Me- FBS 40
Him- FWS 37
15 years
DD- 14 and DS- 13
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
full truth: November 14, 2013
A: 3 months
Working on R

Posts: 953 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
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