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TrustedHer posted 10/10/2013 11:01 AM

From my attorney:

Please find enclosed Judge L***'s on our Post Trial Motions. She did not take any actions to correct anything other than her obvious typographical and computational errors. It is my position that this is an unreasonable Judgment that was not supported by the evidence and represents an abuse of the Court's discretion. I would advise you that an appeal of this to the Court of Appeals ... would be appropriate.

On top of this, in our last email my attorney wants me to set up a face-to-face meeting with XWW to discuss the ordered division of the farm.

FML

nowiknow23 posted 10/10/2013 11:06 AM

Continuing to send you strength, TH. (((((hugs)))))

woundedby2 posted 10/10/2013 11:22 AM

Holy Hell. I'm so sorry, TH.

Sending hugs and strength your way. (((TH)))

MovingUpward posted 10/10/2013 11:32 AM

Man TH, this just continues to suck. Whatever you choose to do, I send you mojo.

Newlease posted 10/10/2013 13:39 PM

I'm so sorry TH - do you ever just feel like running away?

I'm not sure I would be strong enough to hang on through all this time.

Sending strength and peace.

NL

wifehad5 posted 10/10/2013 15:39 PM

I'm sorry you're still dealing with this TH. You are in my thoughts.

Jrazz posted 10/10/2013 15:52 PM

Mergh.

(((TH)))

devistatedmom posted 10/10/2013 16:15 PM

I know your D deal sucks TH, but what do YOU want to do? Do you want to appeal?

I feel for you.

Merlin posted 10/10/2013 16:22 PM

Early on, some time after I filed and life got dark, one of my wise friends told me that 'divorce is forever'.

I didn't know that it was a curse with no way to break the spell.

inconnu posted 10/10/2013 18:08 PM

my attorney wants me to set up a face-to-face meeting with XWW to discuss the ordered division of the farm.

my offer still stands to wear my bitch shoes and stand behind you holding my baseball bat. just saying...

Amazonia posted 10/10/2013 18:48 PM

I know that the division of the farm was 1) a huge hit financially, and 2) a huge hit emotionally because of the family history, etc., BUT ... is it worth it to fight it? Despite the significance, would it be easier to write it off as a garbage removal fee and move on away from the poison?

TrustedHer posted 10/10/2013 19:25 PM

Ama, I'm not fighting the division of the farm. I can't. Legally, since I foolishly put her name on the deed, it became marital property. According to the original order, it became a "gift". So now we have to split it. I don't have to like it, but I've come to accept it.

It's the rest of the settlement that is unfair, and, according to my lawyer, contrary to the statute.

I'll talk to him on Tuesday, find out how much it will cost to appeal, and maybe get a second opinion before I move forward.

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