Must Survive - I thought about that! But at this stage, I think it might be too much. I mean, we haven't even kissed, we were taking things slow. But if some stuff had gone down I probably very likely would. I did that with OW's BF.
Faithful w/ Love - if ONLY dating in NY was as glamorous as it's shown in Sex & The City! The truth is there are a LOT more women then men (200,000+ it's statistically proven) and most of the good men KNOW they are a hot commodity and are picky as hell - because they can be. They can't turn a corner without a woman coming up to them.
It's rough out there for us normal girls. Let's see, some of my examples in the last 2 years:
1) The "I'm in Love With Myself" guy
Brags about what a hot shot he is, thinking it's going to entice you to want him even more. This is usually common among the Wall Street / Finance guys. Loving referred to as Douches by my crew. They believe every woman wants them becuase it' so easy for them to get women & therefore they have an inflated view of themselves. These are also modelizers (modelizers do exist ladies). Went out with a guy who told me all about his Fiji trip with models the entire date - I seriously don't think he asked me one question about myself. NEXT
2) The: New To New York Guy
Basically want you to show them around while they act like a kid in the candy store - these are the men I avoid like the plague - ugh, Im no one's tour guide! Which leads me too:
3) The On Vacation / Business Trip Guy
Usually looking for the fun 'wild' and 'promiscuous' girl to enjoy (because they all think - thanks to Sex & The City - that we're overly sexually liberated powerful cougar type women) Here's a tip guy, I live here, this is Tuesday in my world, not Spring Break. NEXT
4) The "I'm Just Getting Started Guy"
Typically in his mid twenties. New to the city, new to his career, he's like a kid in a candy store, looking to sleep with as many women as possible. Very similar to #1 and aspires to be him.
5) The "Artist"
Also known as "the unemployed" that believes his creativity will help him make it big. He's too soulful for a paycheck. He's looking to live off you - and be forewarned, he smokes a lot of pot.
6) The Old Rich Dude That Partied too Much in his Youth and Now has Hit the "Oh Shit Phase" of Life
He's looking to be a sugar daddy. He was Dude #1 back in the day but then missed the boat to get married and have kids because he always thought there would be plenty of women to surround him. Now he's in his late 40s or 50s wanting a family - but believes he's only suitable for women in their 20s & early 30s. I've actually known a man that is 42 that said, and I quote "I wont date a woman over the age of 32, because I want to have kids"
really buddy? How's that 22 working out for you? But what do I know, perhaps the dust from my dying ovaries has clouded my judgement
7) The Foreign Guy
This is what I was hit with recently and what started the post. In their worlds, cheating isn't so much of a crime, but a way of life in their country. Women are something to be enjoyed - but they don't believe this is needed on a one-by-one basis. Warning, Foreign Guy is also cloaked as a "wanting to get married guy" for green card status.
That's just some to name a few. So yes, come on over. It's an endless parade
I need my own blog. Reality In The City.
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