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Mystified by this trigger

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 Softcentre (original poster member #39166) posted at 6:56 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013

There's a cancer charity advert that has triggered me every time I've seen it over the last year.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BGrskynlGs

I just couldn't work out why it triggered me.

I had basically decided that it must just be that I'm so much more emotionally open since dday1 , that it affected me now. But I just figured it out...

...In that advert,all the falling people (the ones devastated by their cancer diagnosis) are caught. Someone was there to catch them.

From Dday1 onwards,I have fallen down so many times,emotionally speaking, and assumed WH would be there to catch me. But he wasn't, and I slammed into the ground. That's why it's a trigger.

Me: BW
Him: XWH
2 Children

Finally reached indifference & looking forward to my new beginning

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suposd2btheonly1 ( member #40753) posted at 7:34 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013

((((Softcentre)))

Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:55 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2013

(((Softcentre)))

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