There's a cancer charity advert that has triggered me every time I've seen it over the last year.
I just couldn't work out why it triggered me.
I had basically decided that it must just be that I'm so much more emotionally open since dday1 , that it affected me now. But I just figured it out...
...In that advert,all the falling people (the ones devastated by their cancer diagnosis) are caught. Someone was there to catch them.
From Dday1 onwards,I have fallen down so many times,emotionally speaking, and assumed WH would be there to catch me. But he wasn't, and I slammed into the ground. That's why it's a trigger.
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - Unremorseful passive aggressive blameshifter. Many EA's & at least 1 PA. Dday Aug 2012. He walked out April 2013, wanting D, now stalling
Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him