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sad81712 posted 10/10/2013 14:48 PM

I can't believe 14 months after dday and feeling really good about our recovery I find out my H has not told me everything....He's been lying for over a year....I'm heartbroken. He gets home tonight and I need to be ready. I can't find where the 180 guide is. I've looked through the Healing Library. Please help me find it.....

Morhurt posted 10/10/2013 14:53 PM

Here is the link:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11

Morhurt posted 10/10/2013 14:55 PM

I wanted to get that to you quickly but now I'll respond...

Oh man sad81712, I am so sorry!!! I can't even imagine, that is my absolute biggest fear. I really hope that this is something you two can work through.

Big ((hugs)) on this awful day. Don't forget to breathe.

heartache101 posted 10/10/2013 15:03 PM

Sad
Has he now came clean or is this a new discovery you found?

sad81712 posted 10/10/2013 15:13 PM

Thank so much for the fast reply. I've read it and now hope I can do it. I'm devastated.

He did not come clean...I found out. I felt I needed to snoop. He's been out of town for a few days so I went to his office and poked around on his computer....and I found more. I found he had been talking and did "God knows what" on Skype. It was from 2011. I believe he hasn't cheated during this past year. But, he still hasn't come clean of what he did in the past....even after many times I was on my knees begging him to tell me everything.... I'm sick to my stomach

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