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User Topic: I need to read the 180 guide lines
sad81712
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't believe 14 months after dday and feeling really good about our recovery I find out my H has not told me everything....He's been lying for over a year....I'm heartbroken. He gets home tonight and I need to be ready. I can't find where the 180 guide is. I've looked through the Healing Library. Please help me find it.....


"Pain is mandatory for all of us. It's what teaches us. Suffering is what's optional. That's what happens when we try to skip over the pain."-Glennon Doyle Melton
BW(me)-49 WH-48
Married 23yrs
DD & DS
D-day 8-2012

Posts: 91 | Registered: Nov 2012
Morhurt
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here is the link:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 1127 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Morhurt
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wanted to get that to you quickly but now I'll respond...

Oh man sad81712, I am so sorry!!! I can't even imagine, that is my absolute biggest fear. I really hope that this is something you two can work through.

Big ((hugs)) on this awful day. Don't forget to breathe.


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 1127 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
heartache101
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sad
Has he now came clean or is this a new discovery you found?


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3222 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
sad81712
♀ 37418
Member # 37418
Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank so much for the fast reply. I've read it and now hope I can do it. I'm devastated.

He did not come clean...I found out. I felt I needed to snoop. He's been out of town for a few days so I went to his office and poked around on his computer....and I found more. I found he had been talking and did "God knows what" on Skype. It was from 2011. I believe he hasn't cheated during this past year. But, he still hasn't come clean of what he did in the past....even after many times I was on my knees begging him to tell me everything.... I'm sick to my stomach


"Pain is mandatory for all of us. It's what teaches us. Suffering is what's optional. That's what happens when we try to skip over the pain."-Glennon Doyle Melton
BW(me)-49 WH-48
Married 23yrs
DD & DS
D-day 8-2012

Posts: 91 | Registered: Nov 2012
Topic Posts: 5

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