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Divorce/Separation :
Popped up in my work email - yuck

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 need_hope (original poster member #23989) posted at 8:54 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013

Thanks LinkedIn but I think I'll decline the suggestion. While I do actually know my ex, the fact that I know him is exactly why he is my ex and I'd rather not "add him to my network".

Next thing you know I'll be getting suggestions to add every anonymous hook-up, one-night stand, long-term skank or two-bit, low-rent festering cooze he ever shagged. Nope, don't think so. Those are exactly the "connections" I chose to get rid of.

Now I feel the need to shower with a brillo pad.

Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters


Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:55 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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 need_hope (original poster member #23989) posted at 9:02 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013

It was not what I was expecting NIK. To scroll down a work-related email and see his stupid face looking at me and LinkedIn suggesting we should be connected. Blech.

I shuddered at the thought and then deleted the email.

Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters


Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.

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DecimatedHeart ( member #37657) posted at 9:57 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013

I completely understand! LinkedIn actually has asked me more than once if I want to add OW to my network. I quit using LinkedIn, not that I used it that much to begin with. I don't need to see her name and horse-face every time I log on.

[This message edited by DecimatedHeart at 3:58 PM, October 10th (Thursday)]

Me, BS 43
Him WH 43 - LTA, EA/PA
Together 25 years
DD14 - the love of my life

DDay#1 11/10/2012
DDay#4 4/5/2013 (NC broken AGAIN)
DDay#5 10/8/14 - caught him reading an "old" email from OW.

D seems like the only option.

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