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If only I had read this first. Brilliant article!!

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bitterbetrayal posted 10/11/2013 06:46 AM

If only I had read this brilliant article at the beginning. I had the worst MC possible who did and said all the things first mentioned in this article. I am posting this here because I was requested to do so after posting it in general. Please please read it. http://www.davidclarkeseminars.com/apps/articles/?columnid=508&articleid=3813 It's relevant even if you are not a church goer.

[This message edited by bitterbetrayal at 6:48 AM, October 11th (Friday)]

Take2 posted 10/11/2013 15:38 PM

bumping - because it is going to help some poor soul out there, who finds themselves with a bad MC...

Exit Wounds posted 10/11/2013 15:46 PM

[This message edited by Exit Wounds at 4:01 PM, October 11th (Friday)]

putonahappyface posted 10/14/2013 08:33 AM

Awesome! Wish every counselor was trained to follow this.

sad12008 posted 10/14/2013 09:29 AM

I agree; it is REALLY great that it is coming from someone who can maybe bend the ear of the pastor-oriented people. I don't say that derisively; rather, I am relieved.

You're right; it has relevance to all and though he references the Bible and frames the message within a Christian context, it's not in a proselytizing or distracting manner.

I hope this helps some people! Finding a good MC or IC is as hard as finding a good hairdresser.

maddmurph posted 10/14/2013 12:30 PM

We go to our first session on Friday. If it starts out the wrong way, I will know. Glad you posted it. Thanks.

bitterbetrayal posted 10/14/2013 13:01 PM

I am so glad this is helping you all.I hope others will read it too.

Mr. Kite posted 10/14/2013 14:05 PM

Thank you for taking the time to post this article.

katiej posted 10/15/2013 08:11 AM

Just bumping this because it is an EXCELLENT article and one I wish I had found a long, long time ago. Our marriage counselor was just that - only discussed our marriage and let the affairs slide by because, of course, it was the issues in our marriage that made him do it.

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