The OP in my situation is a horrible stinking piece of poo. It thrived on the challenge of married men. My WH was her third go at another family. Her previous one was a success because she got the husband to leave his wife and kids for her. Evil sociopath with no guilt or regret just a magical vajayjay.
That being said, my WH involved himself with it. My WH moved his energy and effort from me to it. Those decisions were his. His decisions hurt me. He is 100% responsible for his actions.
Doesn't mean I wouldn't want to kick her ass too (if I ever met her
[This message edited by seenow at 8:46 AM, October 11th (Friday)]