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Bebba1171 (original poster member #33857) posted at 4:08 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Running in the Chicago Marathon in the morning.
Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 4:09 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 4:09 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:19 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Go, Telsa!!! 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 4:24 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Good Luck!!
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:45 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Good luck!
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 4:49 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Good luck on your run!!!!
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
dameia ( member #36072) posted at 6:56 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
How exciting! Good luck
Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 7:23 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
WTG! Even attempting a marathon is awesome! Is this your first?
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:02 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
What? They allow cars in the marathon? Oh, wait ...
Best of luck, Tesla
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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 9:29 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 1:31 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
Oh wow, thank you so much! I really needed this today!
The marathon is Sunday...I'm running to qualify for Boston...it's going to be close. Any positive vibes you can send my way Sunday morning will be much appreciated.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 1:32 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
All my fast and endurance vibes heading your way!! Good luck!
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 2:07 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
Have fun and best of luck!
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 9:27 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
That's awesome Tesla!!! Good Luck!!!
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
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Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 3:16 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
Sending good vibes! Let us know how it went (when you recover).
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 3:24 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 10:51 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
It was a bittersweet day. Started great, felt great...on pace for 3:30. Then at mile 15 my calves started cramping. Slowed down hoping they would work themselves out, just got worse! Ugh!! Stopped to stretch at 20 and almost couldn't get going again. Finished at 3:59. So, still sub four but it was hard to get through.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
CharlieFoxtrot ( member #38010) posted at 11:09 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
Great job, tesla! Under four after stopping to stretch... Wow
Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.
Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 11:19 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
No small achievement to finish! Is 3:30 the qualifying time for Boston?
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