He decided to tell me that he hasn't finished the past few times we've had sex. Of course I know this because I have been with him for 14 years and well I know when he's finishing and such.
He told me it was because even though it feels great that he starts thinking about how he hurt me with the A. Then he thinks about the baby and how last time after I had the baby is when he was in his A and he was a horrible husband and dad.
Does this seem reasonable or like a bunch of crap?
Obviously you guys are a lot further out than we are, but I can definitely see his reasoning. Not surprised being pregnant is a bit of a trigger for either of you...I'm pretty sure it will be for me.
OTOH,it could be a bunch of crap.
They just took away the one that takes the edge off the one to make the lovin' happen.
The weird thing is during the day it's hands all over me but once it gets to lovin' time he's not all there.
Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."