Thanks. I am really trying to do everything I can in order to make him feel safe. He has told me that he doesn't think I will cheat again. I know what will happen if I do anyways.
I know that he is always going to trigger about something. I try to help him as much as I can with those triggers. I know when he triggers even without him telling me.
What will you do if/when you do see your xAP?
I am just going to ignore him. We usually don't work at the same time anyway, And we work in different departments so we don't have to interact at all. Don't have the same breaks or anything.
Before I left work in March, I always told my husband if I had to interact with my xAP. Which wasn't usually a lot anyway. But since being back I haven't seen him.
Can you look for a new job?
I am actually working right now to gain some money. I am going back to school and start in December. When I start school I will only be working on Saturdays.
I probably do need a better plan than just to ignore him. Do you have any suggestions?
I am going to continue doing what I am doing and tell him anything he wants to know.
Thank you for the responses.