Hi Sam - I'm glad to see you posting out here.
So is posting here part of the work that your wife is asking you to do to help heal you/her/the marriage?
If so, definitely dedicate some time to do so to help her feel better, but also focus on what you want to work on.
Is the issue at hand about posting, or about procrastinating in general?
Very touching story about you and your wife. Gotta cling to those wonderful moments when they happen.
Best of luck to you both.