FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
I lived here for a long time.
Always the victim, Wallowing in self pity.
Everything was someone else's fault.
It took some real self honesty, and self awareness to move out of that place.
To say I caused all of this, or at least mt actions contributed to this.
I'm not talking just infidelity.
I have a life long tendency to not take responsibility for my actions.
It was hard work but I did manage to get out of that mindset.
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
"Your secrets keep you sick"