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Happy birthday Cantaccept!

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 blakesteele (original poster member #38044) posted at 12:01 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

I saw your post yesterday talking about your birthday desires and that your birthday is today.

I pray you have a peaceful, restful day today.

God be with you.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 6:03 AM, October 14th (Monday)]

ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.

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jost1125 ( member #38710) posted at 12:08 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Just want to chime in and say happy birthday too! I read your post yesterday too but didn't have time to reply. My b-day is coming up too and all I want is something similar to what you would like.

I hope you get what you need today.

Happy Birthday!

((cantaccept))

Me (BGF) 35yr
Him (WBF) 32yr
Children: 14yr (mine)
Dday #1 (admitted to EA) Sept. 29, 2012
Dday #2 (admitted is was PA) Oct. 1, 2012

posts: 130   ·   registered: Mar. 12th, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
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AML04 ( member #39682) posted at 12:27 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Happy Birthday!! I hope this year and all of the following bring you all you need and deserve.

Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

posts: 876   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2013   ·   location: MA
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ItsaClimb ( member #37107) posted at 2:36 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Happy Birthday, hope you have a peaceful day {hugs}

BS 52
Together 35 yrs, M 31 years
2 daughters 30yo(married with 2 children) & 25yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

posts: 1321   ·   registered: Oct. 11th, 2012
id 6522805
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bionicgal ( member #39803) posted at 3:06 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Happy birthday greetings to you! Life throws us curve balls sometimes, but better to be here and enjoy the wild ride!

I hope you have some happy moments today!

me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.

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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 3:14 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Happy Birthday!

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


posts: 15220   ·   registered: Jan. 15th, 2011
id 6522833
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Gr8Lady ( member #36307) posted at 3:57 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Awww Happy Birthday...hope everything is great today for you.

Your SI buddies have your back always...

BS: Me (70yo)FWH: HIM (72 yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013

friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.

posts: 762   ·   registered: Jul. 31st, 2012
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SpiderGrl ( member #40157) posted at 4:08 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Happy Birthday!!!!

Me 36- BW
Him 37- WH 6 month EA pushing PA.
DDAY- 7/2/13
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will. -Gandhi
Pls forgive weird sentences and spelling mistakes, I post from my phone and autocorrect hates me.

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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 8:41 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Happy Birthday. Cantaccept!!!!

Sending you hugs and prayers for strength. I hope the year to come will bring happier moments and peace to you!!!!

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

posts: 1632   ·   registered: Aug. 1st, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
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heartache101 ( member #26465) posted at 8:45 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Happy Birthday! Hope you made the day about you!

There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

posts: 3225   ·   registered: Dec. 8th, 2009   ·   location: Indiana
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PrincessPeach06 ( member #39588) posted at 9:22 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Happy Birthday! :)

Me (BS): 36
Him aka narcissistic psychopath (WS): 36
Married 17 years 6 kids ages 16-7
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

Filed for divorce 5/8/15

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SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 10:45 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Happy Birthday to you, Cantaccept!

Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

posts: 1292   ·   registered: Sep. 4th, 2012   ·   location: Sunny Florida
id 6523454
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sinnomore ( new member #36800) posted at 2:57 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

Happy birthday! Hope you enjoyed celebrating YOU!!

Edited for spelling....

[This message edited by sinnomore at 8:59 PM, October 14th (Monday)]

Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24

posts: 28   ·   registered: Sep. 12th, 2012   ·   location: USA
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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 11:20 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

Thank you everyone!

It was a really great birthday. It was actually the first one I ever had that was all about me!

That was fun. It feels a little selfish, but I think I can live with that!

H gave me presents and a card (most special to me, the words, the thoughts), first thing in the morning.

Then we took the train into NYC, walk around a lot, ate where I wanted to, laughed, talked, created new memories.

It was especially nice because the two days before were filled with lots and I mean lots of honest communication.

It wouldn't have felt anywhere near as special without that.

Here's to new beginnings.

Peace everyone!

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

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 blakesteele (original poster member #38044) posted at 11:21 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.

posts: 5835   ·   registered: Jan. 8th, 2013   ·   location: Central Missouri
id 6523999
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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:36 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 11:50 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

Awesome!!!

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

posts: 2859   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2012
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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 2:28 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

Wow! Great news! So happy for you!!!!!!

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

posts: 1632   ·   registered: Aug. 1st, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
id 6524129
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