I was big on this...but realized it is not healthy for me. My wife is a big girl...can read and share her journey on her own. For us it is counterproductive for me to do this....I still slip up and send her a link every now and then. Generally this results in no "ah-ha" moments for her.
My energy is better spent on other tasks.
I am 13 months out, 4 months into tentative R. Our pre-A M was characterized by me gathering and my wife waiting....so I also have a bias there...need to break this cycle as it feeds into both of our FOO issues....it is very comfortable to us but has proven to be equally unhealthy.
Thought I needed to add that.
God be with us all.