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ArkLaMiss posted 10/14/2013 14:21 PM

They were gross and nasty. One claims he had a pet name for her. She's so gross and nasty and morbidly obese. He says he can't remember what he called her. I say he's lying. He also told her all kinds of stuff including I love you. She's not the only one, there's one in Tx, too. Told her shit, too. Including that he was going to leave me. All were, supposedly, cyber affairs, including cyber sex and lots of phone calls. Don't know if he ever met anyone and probably never will. He's oilfield, so works off a lot. Never took a poly, never wrote a timeline. Doesn't read books like he said he would. Won't post here. Thinks he's not like others here. I'm disgusted by all this. It's been 9 years this month since I found out. Won't admit anything but what I found out.

sullymeishadomi posted 10/14/2013 15:43 PM

((ArkLaMis)). I think its the ol 'if I dont talk about it, it'll go away'. If he lied to you, he def lied to them. Im not great with advice. Just wanted to leave a hug.

SerJR posted 10/14/2013 19:32 PM

(((Arklamiss)))

Is this a dealbreaker for you?

ArkLaMiss posted 10/14/2013 19:35 PM

Thanks for replying, Sully. I guess you are right.

Ostrich80 posted 10/14/2013 19:57 PM

ArkLaMis)). I think its the ol 'if I dont talk about it, it'll go away'. If he lied to you, he def lied to them. Im not great with advice. Just wanted to leave a hug.

I agree ^^^^. I'm living with one of these too.

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