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User Topic: What do you do with a disrespectful DD
♀ 38288
Member # 38288
Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My D is 17 yo. She calls me names, throws things at me, yells at me and completely disobeys any rules in the house. She sneaks out of the house. She goes off to who knows where. She is flunking out of school---again.

I have tried taking away her phone and computer, she does't care. I have tried taking away her car, she doesn't care.

I'm at the end of my rope here. I don't have a H who supports me in her discipline.

I have told my H she has to go or I will leave. She's 17. I don't know if I can last until she is 18.


BW 57, WH 66, 19 yo twins
Married 28 years
2 years of $$$$$$ prostitutes.

Posts: 288 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: CO
Darkness Falls
♀ 27879
Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know what the PC term for "boot camp" is, but is that an option?

How long until she is 18?

WS, 5-month EA/PA '09-'10

Divorced from (2010) and remarried to (2014) XBH

1 1/2-year-old daughter and another baby girl on the way

Posts: 4646 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Central Florida
♀ 21101
Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you had her evaluated for depression? That kind of acting out is serious. Usually triggered by more than just being a teen. I would mandate she be drug tested an then a full psych evaluation. If all is normal then you can get really tough with her either shipping her to military school or doing it yourself. Which may not be an option given the lack of support you have at home.

If she is depressed or doing drugs then you need to get her in treatment. The sooner the better.

Him: FWS
Kids: 18 & 20
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 13439 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I'm sorry that I don't have any advice. I'm sending prayers, good thoughts, and hope.

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