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User Topic: Physician heal thyself..
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So last night during the Red Sox game I got disgusted and stomped off to take a shower. I guess I wasn't paying attention but when I went to get out (sunken shower) I slipped and landed on my left shoulder with my left arm caught behind me.

This dislocated my shoulder out of the socket. I screamed bloody murder and fWS came running in. So there I am wet, naked and dislocated. FWS also being an MD grabbed my arm and relocated my humerus. I then tried to get up and put weight on the arm and it dislocated again. FWS got me up and was about to perform another maneuver when it popped back in on its own.

Oh My God that hurt. I missed work today but went up there to be x-rayed and examined by our sports medicine doc (who also works with our division I football players). I have a torn labrum (like the meniscus of the knee). I'm slinged, iced and on drugged. I'll be starting PT next week.

The problem with this injury is that people can start dislocating with very little stress on the joint (like Mel Gibson in Lethal Weapon). If that happens its major surgery, immobile shoulder for months. I do NOT want that.

So please wish me good mojo and healing. And give me strength to not kill these dogs who are acting out knowing I can't do anything about it. Little bastards.

Oh, and the worst part is I missed the 8th and 9th inning heroics of Big Papi and Salty. Damn It!!!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2300 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok missing the end of that game Suck ! I felt the same way when I heard the sports report this morning.

That shoulder injury SUCK x5!!!!

Sending much healing MOJO. PT will be your lifesaver. Getting all the surrounding muscles strong. Now take it easy this week so it can start to heal on its own.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8789 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ouch! Sorry about your shoulder, pj. My sister has a similar problem with her ankle. She can be just walking around and it'll dislocate.

Now, listen to your therapist, hear? I know you're a doctor but it's said doctors are the *worst* patients. Don't be cliche, alright? In this case *you* are the patient. Be the kind *you* would want.

Sending healing mojo. Hope you feel better soon.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5896 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((purple)))

Ouch. I'm so sorry. Sending you healing mojo.


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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending compliant patient mojo and prayers for rapid healing!


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6665 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
gma56
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing Mojo !

And..OUCH !!!


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Purple))


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

Posts: 8471 | Registered: Sep 2007
teacheribe
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Healing Hugs))))


BS me 53
FWH 57
Married for 32 years
Live for today.

Posts: 1709 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Virginia
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ouch. Ouch. Ouch.

That is all.

No wait.....(((((pj)))))


I'm Happy, not Sad!

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Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ouch. Ouch. Ouch.

That is all.

No wait.....(((((pj)))))


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1195 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shoulder injuries suck! Follow orders and do your PT faithfully. I broke my shoulder ten years ago and never got back full range of motion.

Heal fast. Enjoy the drugs. ;-)


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((pj)))) BE A COMPLIANT PATIENT!!! Sorry to yell, but I have experience with medical professionals as patients, so it was totally warranted.

Note to your doggies - BE COMPLIANT PUPPIES!!!

Hope that all evens things out and you are quickly on the mend.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((pj))) patience and healing.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5906 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing thoughts to you!!

sunandmoon


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Dr. PJ)))

Hope you're feeling better soon.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24662 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Pj))

Ouch. Be a good sick person.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7816 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
cayc
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Purplejacket))))


"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

Posts: 3150 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Definite healing mojo!! I've had two torn miniscus in my knees, and OMG, the pain is unbearable. I can't imagine how painful the shoulder is.

So, stay slinged, iced, and drugged and get all better!


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2491 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:42 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Purplejacket)))))

Sending healing mojo!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38662 | Registered: Sep 2007
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd hug you but I'm afraid it would hurt. You're in my thoughts for a quick, full recovery.

[This message edited by sisoon at 8:15 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)]


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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