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User Topic: DD's touching gesture...
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Out of the blue and totally unexpected, DD22 told me she was going with me for emotional and physical support this Saturday to the final hearing. She told me that even if I tell her no, which she was expecting me to do, she would show up anyway so there was no point in me arguing with her about it. She works at the courthouse and it is her second home so she is very comfortable there.

Never expected this, and it is so sweet on her part! It might make the event a little more tolerable knowing I have support there with me.

To my knowledge, POS still has no plans to be there since he waived his right to appear, and he can't afford the plane ticket anyway. However, my guard will be up and ready, just in case.

This is going to be a LONG week waiting...

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
D 2013

~Hakuna matata!~

Posts: 1823 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love her!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
♀ 26928
Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your DD is an awesome young lady.

Me - 43
DD(22), DS(19, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

Posts: 8131 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There
♀ 40144
Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank God for truly awesome kids! She sounds wonderful. So glad you have her support. You deserve it.

Me: 48 BS, Him: 49 WH
M 22 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 1079 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
♂ 30221
Member # 30221
Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My 21 year old son was in the gallery at a recent divorce court hearing. I asked him not to go. But he had seen the notice and said that nothing his mother or I could do would keep him away.

My ex-wife and her attorney tried to have him ejected and were denied as he was sitting there.

He watched all of it

"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11

Posts: 1164 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: East Coast
Topic Posts: 5

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