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Vulcanized (original poster member #33523) posted at 6:37 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Ran my credit report today. Couldn't get a copy b/c I couldn't answer questions about a car loan. That I didn't take out.
As a j/i/c, run XH's credit. Apparently the fucking fuck took out a loan in my name last year. Before the D was final. I was spitting tacks.
Wanted to go by my old house (the one I bought XH) and bust the window on his brand new car. Instead, didn't.
Talked to one of my friends, who works at a law office. If possible, going to nail this motherfucker to the floor.
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 7:19 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Nail that motherfucker to the floor, walls, and ceiling!!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:12 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
AYFKM????
Nail that motherfucker to the floor, walls, and ceiling!!
^^THIS!!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
openedupmyeyes ( member #27871) posted at 12:59 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
^^^^this. Then turn on a ceiling fan. Rip him a few new a#$ holes.
Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 2:00 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
I believe that's called credit fraud and is a felony. FTG.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 2:05 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
OMG!!!! What an ASS!!!!
FTG, go after his criminal ass.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 2:39 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Go after the fucker. What a POS!!!!!!FTG
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
Dark Inertia ( member #30727) posted at 3:27 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Wow! Is the loan paid off or still open?
Vulcanized (original poster member #33523) posted at 4:35 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 4:46 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Do what you need to do to protect your credit and identity. Let his actions meet his consequences. Good luck!
StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 4:59 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
OMG. There is just no action low enough for these scuzzy pond scum. It is just outrageous. FTG.
(((vulcanized)))
Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 5:38 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Nail that motherfucker to the floor, walls, and ceiling!!
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
2long ( new member #10570) posted at 9:28 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Do you need a new car?
Go pick it up and take over the payments, if so. It's your car, since your name is on it.
If you don't need the car, sell it out from under his sorry ass.
-ol' 2long
Tripletrouble ( member #39169) posted at 9:59 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
There should definitely be legal consequences.. Very possibly felony offense(s). Go after this with a vengeance. I am wondering what liability the lender may have as well.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
donotlietome ( member #26478) posted at 11:00 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Think I'd have my car towed home!!!
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 2:44 AM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
Wow.
FTG.
And bring your new car home. 
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Vulcanized (original poster member #33523) posted at 7:19 AM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
The thing that's ironic is I don't know how to drive.
Did more digging today. There are other loans I don't know about. Maybe XH isn't the culprit after all.
In 30 days, I'll have that credit report, and can get to the bottom of this crap.
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
Dawn58 ( member #37656) posted at 10:02 AM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
Nail his ass to the floor. Amazing what these guys think they can get away with!!!
I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 2:20 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
I'm sorry, Vulcanized. Hope you win.
XPervert has loans I didn't know about and blames me saying I would get upset if he told me.
Well, the creditors are circling and they're getting shut down right and left on him and I hope it happens to your X, too.
It's amazing, in a way, that he could manage it with your name but without you knowing? So much paperwork, though I guess we have all different kinds of lenders now?
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
haysuth01 ( member #29161) posted at 4:43 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
Nail his sorry fucking ass.
My ex did shit like this too. Luckily he was so afraid I'd expose him (I told him I had evidence that he'd forged my sig on a 2nd mortgage for 45k) that he quickly took out a personal loan to pay it off and avoid it.
I still have no idea where that 45k went. I don't wanna know.
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