Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce 12-19-16
So WH met with out pastor last week. Yeah - he waited a whole year to do that but I digress. I decided to go with him yesterday. I had a specific question regarding handling a part of this process (preparing for divorce basically) biblically. Of course out pastor's goal is to save our marriage. He knows where I am and why. He gets if WH doesn't change I'm not safe. But still he is biased.
Anyways - at one point he tells WH he HAS to get the whole truth of the affair out. He said "except THOSE details - she doesn't need to know those." I corrected him by saying I did in fact need those details. If I didn't have those details I would make up stuff like they had "crazy, monkey porn sex". OMGosh!! Who says that to their pastor?!?!!
Bad part is it took me like 12 hours to even realize what I said! Lol! Good thing my pastor isn't a stuffy one.
That meeting was SO hard for me - had to share the funny part so I don't dwell in that pain.
Edited for typo
[This message edited by sodamnlost at 8:10 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)]
Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an