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				    				 floridaredman (original poster  member #15122)		posted at 4:56 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013	
			 
	These videos were shown to me by a member here who was compassionate about what WH's were going through. 
 
 
	They have powerful messages but  have religious content 
 
 
	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCSlaX-u3P8&list=TLsFA7jRrCKSDvzl7oja9AX9DBse8KabZc 
 
 
	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTAn-tk2pDA&list=TLsFA7jRrCKSDvzl7oja9AX9DBse8KabZc 
 
 
	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWi5iXnguTU&list=TLsFA7jRrCKSDvzl7oja9AX9DBse8KabZc 
 
			 			" floridaredman, it's good to have you here"...DeeplyScared
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				    				BaxtersBFF ( member #26859)		posted at 6:18 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013	
			 
	Thanks for sharing FRM! 
 
 
	Even if you can separate out the religious motivation, it is still a worthy, valid message. We each travel different paths everyday, but the message still holds. We are awesome.  
 
 
			 		 			 
				    				Perseverabo ( member #38057)		posted at 7:38 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013	
			 
	Thank you so much for sharing these. I really needed them. My struggles lately at IC and MC has been on how my relationship with God has suffered from the deep shame I feel from what I have done. It is not that I ever felt worthy of divine grace, but I have never before felt so unworthy where the man in the mirror can no longer make eye contact with me. Thank you - this message hit the mark with me. 
 
			 	 			 
				    				 floridaredman (original poster  member #15122)		posted at 10:03 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013	
			 
	Faithful w/Love shared these with me. She thought that these could be beneficial for WH's and she was right. 
 
 
	Mods..can we remove the stop sign please. I'm sorry...I forgot to remove it. 
 
			 			" floridaredman, it's good to have you here"...DeeplyScared
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				    				topperoff22 ( member #40762)		posted at 11:54 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013	
			 
	I am a BS who might could have been a WS if the opportunity came up so I hope it is OK to add these links? 
 
 
	More links.... 
 
 
	http://www.fireproofmymarriage.com/ 
 
 
	and The Love Dare 
 
 
	http://lovedarestories.com/ 
 
			 			BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month		
	 	 			 
				    				Joanh ( member #39146)		posted at 12:00 AM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013	
			 
	I watched all that has been posted here, amazing and so helpful.  It brought me to tears.  Realizations, appreciations, and understanding,and some enlightenment and breathing room? maybe. 
 
 
	Thank you 
 
			 			BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children  22, 8, 6
Just....		
	 	 			 
				    				Faithful w/Love ( member #33128)		posted at 2:32 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013	
			 
	You are all welcome. I wanted them posted and I asked floridaredman to put them on here, because I feel everyone needs to hear those words, because no matter what has been done it can change, and when we feel down we are harder on ourselves then others/and we start to look at ourselves as unworthy and that is NOT true. 
 
 
	Everyone deserves to be loved and know that they are LOVED no matter what. AND that we all change if we just look inward. 
 
			 			BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38 
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying. 
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
		
	 	 
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