(I just tried to edit the title...I don't really mean it is JUST for the WS! This is for anyone in the marriage!)
I just watched Fireproof with WH. Amazing movie for our situation and left us both sobbing. The movie is based on a book called The Love Dare. This is a 40 day process of a spouse doing nice things for their spouse, or addressing issues within the marriage. Just learned WH just started it, but I don't plan to. I want him to walk this through this particular exercise "on his own" so to speak, though I know I am a participant as well.
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