Just want to throw up.
Putting OW on the phone is continuing and in true narc style, xPervert s saying "It's DD, she keeps asking." I'm not sleeping again so that's my excuse for breaking NC-2 x 4 please-but when people mess with my kids, I have trouble just being quiet.
They are confusing DD now and selling her this rainbow world and accusing me of eavesdropping-now, we have an open floor plan house and DD talks really loud, so there's no need to eavesdrop and I don't even want to know anyway or hear the voices-but his narcissistic self likes to think I wouldn't have anything else to do.
So anyway, apparently they took huge offense at my request and are steamrolling me again, telling me "it's my time with DD, butt out."
So next lawyer conversation I will ask him but likely get nowhere.
Two days ago this man brought me a coffee and toast and told me how "I just want to make your life easier."
They are gearing up to have DD go there -I think this week -and I think that's the change in attitude and I think OW is getting brassier as divorce gets closer.
I'm also talking about possibly leaving the state temporarily so that may have his back up, but really?
This was the good part. Then he says how "disrespected THEY were!!!???" by me? for telling DD when the time limit was done.
I'm kind of worrying sometimes that they'll try to take her away again, I don't put anything past them and they probably will be trying to cite me for alienation of affection, just for asking for some guidelines and respect. I don't think this is going away easily, but if I can get back to crickets, maybe that will help.
And the baby's colicky, so that's one more peg in the wall.
I shouldn't be surprised at how quickly XPervert got nasty-like, snarly. I'm just rambling but won't be surprised if there's a lawyer letter this week. He's got a cheesy one who will complain if I ask XPervert to do the rules like be on time.
Thanks, everybody. I'm having a bad reaction to this and feeling sick to my stomach.
You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.