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betraydtwice posted 10/15/2013 21:17 PM

So I'm leaving tomorrow. I went this aft. to go see my mom before I leave. Spent aft. with her. Went to go do nails and then headed home. Expected H would take me out to eat or do something for our last night together. I get home and he has HOTDOGS!!! WTF!!! Wow so much effort, so much love and caring...WOW

silverhopes posted 10/15/2013 21:23 PM

How long will your trip be, and will you guys be keeping in touch while you're gone?

I can hear your frustration about not getting to do something special the night before you go. Did your H know that you wanted to do something special together?

I remember that the OW works at the airport that you're leaving from tomorrow. Are you going alone to the airport, or is your H going with you? Have you gotten to share with him how you're feeling about having to be in proximity to her? Is he supportive?

I hope you will have a good vacation. Take lots of time for you, and let your family on the other coast love and take care of you. It sounds like you had a good time with your mom this afternoon.

betraydtwice posted 10/15/2013 23:49 PM

Thank you for your post ( and memory) Silver. Yes tomorrow I'm going to see OW..maybe. Either way, I am going to have a great time.
Yes he know's but is not saying a word about seeing her, other than to say he thought I should have went to other airport.