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User Topic: Drama and the OW
♀ 38851
Member # 38851
Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So OW seems to be a bit of a drama queen, posting all kinds of love sayings all over her fb page, who is she trying to fool, your boyfriend is gone back to his wife and you post this??? Pathetic really!

She calls here every few nights, we don't answer, I was going to change our number but figured what better way to document the crazy, keeping track of the calls and the messages. Gathering all the info we need for the authorities if needed, and based on some of the stuff she has pulled since WH brought this plague into our lives, dont put anything past her

House, vehicles and sheds all locked up tight, cause you just never know, she's a nut job so I am sure some of her friends are just like her. And after all, when I have told people what part of the city she grew up in, they all just kind of roll their eyes, definitely from the wrong side of the tracks, and all her good will and volunteering and her way with words cant change that fact!!!!!!!!!!!!

DD knows what she looks like and so does DS so they are always on the look out just in case. And some of our neighbours have been informed so they are watching for anything suspicious.

Hate that WH has brought this dark cloud upon us but at least the fog is clearing, he is doing all the right things and not pushing me, since this went on for 2 years, there aren't many questions I need to ask, we have talked a lot about the A over the past 2 years and he is so disgusted with his actions, it really is a new experience for me to see him so open and vulnerable now, we have a long road ahead of us but we are united and will stand against the OW at all cost

Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2013
♀ 32753
Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will there be a point in time where you two get a restraining order against her? If so, would your H be willing to take the initiative on that?

Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4220 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 3:32 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't imagine having to deal with what your going through. Like an A isn't enough? I'm sorry, she does sound like a freak. I guess if there's one thing good about my ws ow, she stays hidden like a good slut does.

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 3:34 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)]
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
♀ 38378
Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I told XPervert that I'd call the police if Fatty B ever sauntered across my lawn or down my street.

I'm sorry for what you have to put up with, Sunshine, and the gall so many people have.

We have a friend who's X's OW actually peeks in her windows when they do kid visit pick ups. She goes around her house and snaps the shades shut in her face and sometimes unloads the middle finger.

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

Posts: 3034 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
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Member # 40715
Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm becoming more and more disturbed by the number of BB's there appears to be. People who are hurt already are being systematically hounded.

Sunshine, you're right, it is pathetic.
All the blocking, number changing, filing, logging and moving in the world will never stop a true BB. Should I finally discover something that works I shall post immediately, promise x

Until that time crickets it is, sigh.

There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens

Posts: 266 | Registered: Sep 2013
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