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 cuppacoffee (original poster member #39313) posted at 2:38 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013

NOT:

check out the OW's twitter

what she does DOES NOT mean anything to me. Her happiness is built on lies

I am going to:

enjoy my family at the pumpkin patch

love my husband even though he is flawed

How about you?

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

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Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 2:42 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013

Take care of my sick husband when he comes home from work. He's fighting a bad cold, which went through all of the kids, so I know it's no fun. (led to pneumonia in one child).

Oddly, I really like being the one to take care of him. Because I know none of those women he was with could ever care for him like I do. I know him inside and outside and I know what comforts him.

BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 6:38 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013

Good for you, cuppacoffee. BTW, i love your username. One of my guilty pleasures in the morning.

Today, or tonight, I'm going to have a long talk with my FWH that he initiated. Which is wonderful in that I normally have to be the person initiating talks. Which is scary because it's sorta new territory for me/us.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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madsadalone ( member #39201) posted at 6:41 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013

Back to work!

Done being pathetic. Made a plan, getting ducks in a row and moving on with my life...

Me: BS 47
Him:WH 55
M: 27 yrs
DD 4/29/13
3 kids (25,23,22

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Raven96 ( member #40298) posted at 6:46 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013

Rearrange furniture. It turns out that little things make a big difference for me. I swapped the furniture in two rooms, didn't like it, and am now in the process of moving it all back a different way. If anything, I should fall into bed tonight exhausted and without my mind running wild.

All of you sound like you're going to have a TERRIFIC day today!!!!! So glad!!!

Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

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