I ran across a very recent picture of OW this morning. I actually didn't recognize her at all until my eyes glanced at the caption--there was her name. I had to look at the picture again--yes, it was her, but she's gained a massive amount of weight! Her face is puffy, and she was wearing baggy, dowdy clothes to disguise her new bulk. She also looks a lot older than when I last saw her in May 2012.
I know this is mean, but seeing that picture filled me with a perverse kind of glee.
D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA
[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 2:43 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)]
Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
..well then, my dancing on his grave wasn't so nice either???
.. and I suppose then, that pissing on his grave was really nasty???
....oh well, that's just toooooooooooo fucking bad, now isn't it!!!!
..pretending to be my trusted best friend for 25 years while he used my wife for bj's is totally worthy of the fate that he got..
..i like to think his inoperable brain tumor was a clear result of the guilt and shame he tried to live with, but God had other plans.
..karma? payback, God's justice.. ?? it all works for me!!
Karma – good or bad, I don’t believe in it now and never did.
It isn't as if I'm so slim myself. I know what it's like to battle weight issues; both OW and I have had to struggle to keep our weight down (neither of us has ever been slim, but until now, neither of us has been terribly overweight). I should have some compassion for how she must feel about herself, because it can't be good.
I guess it just gave me a sense of satisfaction (or something) to see that she is no longer the "gorgeous" woman my FWH used to think she was.
Tushnurse, I am still waiting for indifference, too. I am not there yet by a long shot.