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User Topic: Crappy Trigger
HeartInADustpan
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So 3 years ago KB rear-ended someone in rush hour traffic. It, thankfully, being rush hour he was going >5mph. Basically a "bump". Anyway, he bumped his little car into big 4X4 truck. Big truck, barely a scratch; little car front end totaled.

So, DDay#2 comes around and he's coming clean...pretty much the end of TT. Turns out he was texting one of his APs when it happened. I remember just nodding and adding it to my mental list of how he's screwed up our M royally. Well, 3 year mark is coming around, so I reminded him he needed to contact the insurance company to make sure it's dropped off. Then it all came back. I triggered (and still am) hard.

Ugh...more in the cost of adultery. Deductible, rental, ticket and 3 years of higher insurance rates. Makes me want to puke.


Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Heart)))) I'm sorry, honey.


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36408 | Registered: Aug 2011
dameia
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Default  Posted: 6:57 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Heart))))

It really is amazing how an A sends its tentacles through the rest of your life. Nothing is unaffected.

I hope today is better for you.


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.


Posts: 1469 | Registered: Jul 2012
AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Heart)))


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2859 | Registered: Aug 2012
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Triggers suck, but I can't help thinking every trigger is a step toward healing....

(((Heart)))


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13671 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
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