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Topic: Failure at Life
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chikastuff
♀ 35288
Member # 35288 |  Posted: 1:02 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013 |     |
Last week's state enforced child support payment is MIA...the only thing (and please correct me if I'm wrong) that I can think of is that the Muppet King lost his job...again.
*sigh*
I wonder how long it's going to be until I get the official word from him. So far he's acting clueless. COBRA information for our son (in addition to his share of our monthly tax payment and daycare) would be nice as well.
Me- 32
Happily engaged and moving on
Posts: 382 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: New England |
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162 | | Posted: 4:45 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013 | |
FBH - 44
FWW - 45 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 8 & 14
The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Posts: 43322 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan |
Ashland13
♀ 38378
Member # 38378 | | Posted: 7:52 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013 | |
FWIW, there are other reasons that CS payments are late or shorted.
I thought that XPerv lost his job when this started again and you know what? What I was to learn is that he secured himself a house with OW and has bills to pay there, so he pays there first instead of where he should.
In some ways, the job loss was better.
I hope things improve soon.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
Posts: 3031 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England |
chikastuff
♀ 35288
Member # 35288 | | Posted: 9:52 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
I wish it were just him prioritizing other bills before this. However his wages are garnished by our state child enforcement agency. I don't get a check directly from XH. No payment means administrative issue-which would be fixed before now-or he's no longer employed there.
Me- 32
Happily engaged and moving on
Posts: 382 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: New England |
sunsetslost
♂ 39885
Member # 39885 | | Posted: 10:01 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
Hang in there chika. Just another hurdle to clear.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
Posts: 799 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach. |
neverdidithink
♀ 40568
Member # 40568 | | Posted: 10:59 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
chikastuff, I too have state-enforced CS. (MA) Some weeks I get a correct deposit, some weeks I get nothing, some weeks I get a partial payment and some weeks I get a makeup amount.
I have no idea why this happens since the same amount is supposed to be deducted from his check/deposited to me, but it's rare that I see the correct amount.
Your X may have lost his job, but it could just be a wonky thing like mine. [This message edited by neverdidithink at 11:18 AM, October 18th (Friday)]
BS, 53
M 9 years
second marriage, second WH
4 kids in their 20s, none together
I have no idea whether we will D or R at this point.
Posts: 424 | Registered: Sep 2013 |
chikastuff
♀ 35288
Member # 35288 | | Posted: 11:21 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
NeverDidThink-
That's interesting, my CS goes through MA as well. This is the first time I've ever had something wonky like this happen. Do you typically follow up with CSE or do you just wait and see?
Me- 32
Happily engaged and moving on
Posts: 382 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: New England |
neverdidithink
♀ 40568
Member # 40568 | | Posted: 11:32 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
I usually just ride it out.
It's not enough money to make a difference in my week to week budget so I just figure I'll see it when I see it.
Don't be afraid to call DOR if you have questions or concerns, they're really great about answering and helping out.
BS, 53
M 9 years
second marriage, second WH
4 kids in their 20s, none together
I have no idea whether we will D or R at this point.
Posts: 424 | Registered: Sep 2013 |
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