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User Topic: This Week's Transcript Snippet
erzulie
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Member # 3293
DOH!  Posted: 7:04 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Let me first say, that I am doing great ... I am high on the drug that is my brilliant shrink, who has taken all of the lunacy that's landed in my lap and made such utter sense out of it, that it is literally feeling as though I'm getting an amateur education in sociopathy and related psychological breakdowns.

Without further ado - a snippet from this week's session, just for everyone's entertainment:

ME: "... you went so far as to open a bank account secretly to fund your website subscription and related antics."

(the point of the discussion at this point was NOT the bank account - that just got mentioned casually as an added detail)

WH: "I did not open a secret bank account!!!"

ME: "Huh? You did - I have the Routing and the Account numbers."

WH: "That's not a bank account - it is a 'pay as you go' ATM card, where I would take money out of our joint account at the ATM, put it onto that ATM card, and then use that to purchase credits on Ashley Madison.com!"

ME: ::: stunned expression, eyeroll:::

COUNSELOR: "Um, WH, I don't think there is too much of a difference between a secret bank account and a secret ATM, is there?"

WH: :::fuming:::


A saying for my SI Family: "We may not have it all together, but together we have it all".

Fooled twice - almost exactly 10 years apart.


Posts: 3377 | Registered: Jan 2004 | From: California
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Word Salad, circular talk....aka lying out their ass and expecting us to fall for it.


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2774 | Registered: Jan 2010
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Makes me want to sing the Wiggles song "Fruit Salad", only changing the words to "Word Salad".


Someone here should make a parody. Would be good stuff.

Word Salad
Funny! Funny!
Word Salad
Funny! Funny!
Word Salad
Funny! Funny! Funny! Funny!
WORD SALAD!!!!!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gB4MNu6W9sg


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10022 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
SerJR
♂ 14993
Member # 14993
Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad to hear you feel you are doing well.
It's nice to get that validation to assure us of our sanity.
At some point though, you need to start disengaging to protect it.


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
sleepless34
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Member # 40274
Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG Nature Girl...the "word salad" song is awesome, that song used to get stuck in my head ALL THE TIME and unfortunately now it will be again...

My STBX has been giving me lots of word salad. I am realizing that he was very good at omitting certain information to make a lie less of of lie. Crazy!!!

He said he met OW on an open marriage chat room. Now, Ashley Madison is not exactly an open marriage chat room- unless you want to count just one of the people in the couple as wanting an open marriage.

I said, when did you see her? on work trips?

He said, work trips were work trips.

Later, I found out he was going on trips he didn't need to go on and she was there. me "So, you said work trips were work trips- now I find out she was there all the time too."
him: "they were work trips, and yes, she was there she had work trips too."

I will have to remember some good other Word Salads later...it is a real skill of his apparently


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 443 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
sleepless34
♀ 40274
Member # 40274
Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG Nature Girl...the "word salad" song is awesome, that song used to get stuck in my head ALL THE TIME and unfortunately now it will be again...

My STBX has been giving me lots of word salad. I am realizing that he was very good at omitting certain information to make a lie less of of lie. Crazy!!!

He said he met OW on an open marriage chat room. Now, Ashley Madison is not exactly an open marriage chat room- unless you want to count just one of the people in the couple as wanting an open marriage.

I said, when did you see her? on work trips?

He said, work trips were work trips.

Later, I found out he was going on trips he didn't need to go on and she was there. me "So, you said work trips were work trips- now I find out she was there all the time too."
him: "they were work trips, and yes, she was there she had work trips too."

I will have to remember some good other Word Salads later...it is a real skill of his apparently


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 443 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
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